It’s that time of year when many people are buying special gifts to thank those who have helped them throughout the year, like their mail carrier, hairdresser, or child’s teacher. And many also consider a special gift for their pastor.
As a pastor’s wife of nearly 25 years, I can say that these gifts have always been appreciated. From delicious baked goods to gift cards and cash, my husband has always been overwhelmed with gratitude that people take the time to remember him (and our family) in this way. As much as those material gifts are enjoyed, I’d like to suggest some additional gifts that I know your pastor would appreciate as well.
Write him a letter (or email)
Tell him something specific that encouraged you from a recent sermon or Bible study he led. Most pastors put so much effort into their sermons each week. It can be so meaningful to hear something beyond just “good job today.” Even better, share with him how you applied something you learned from a sermon to your life. When a pastor hears that a sermon led you to have a Gospel conversation with a coworker or to forgive a long-held grudge, it can help him see the value and purpose in his efforts.
Love his family
If your pastor is married or has children, take time to get to know them. Ask them how they are doing. Find out what activities his children enjoy. Offer to help babysit or attend a school event, especially if they don’t have extended family nearby. Manage expectations you may have for his family, and give them grace as much as possible. It can be challenging to live in the fishbowl of ministry life. Your pastor will be blessed to see his congregation caring for his family well.
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